Neglect taints my vision.
When I was young, I would paint my eyes with makeup to look like bruises. That is not the behavior of someone who sees value in themselves.
While I don't use makeup like that anymore, I do still look for rejection.
I expect it.
From the impatient car on the interstate to the delayed text message / facebook reply to obsessing over the length of my own straightened hair, I look for reasons for people to pass my vehicle, ignore my ideas, and reject who I am.
The awareness is unbearable.
When God allows a specific hurt to rise to the level of unacceptably painful, it is a sure sign He is preparing to heal. I must only rest and wait for His time.
He has always rewarded my patience.
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